Happy birthday, America! May God continue to shed his grace on thee.
And may we, as Americans, wake up again and realize where our great country gets its greatness. As I remember seeing posted on the walls of the church in Buchanan during my walk:
America bless God.
Peace!
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Some People Don't Have a Clue
“Some people just don’t have a clue.” You heard it; you’ve probably even said it. But it’s true; there are those out there and even some close to us that just don’t get it. Of course that “it” can be anything from a life saving understanding of the universe or not knowing which handle is for the hot or cold water.
But where did they miss being taught the basic fundamentals of common sense? Is it something you’re born with (or not), learned at home, like you’re “ABCs” or in church or at school?
I just don’t understand. You see these people are in the news, in the paper, magazines and even on television. Why some networks even have shows dedicated to the results of these peoples actions. And we love to watch!
They are even mentioned in the Bible. Jesus talked about them, you know, “Those that have ears can’t hear…” Well, duh, everyone has ears, so why can’t they hear? Because they don’t have a clue. But many then and now still can’t see nor hear the message of the Gospel.
Even when you try to explain, show by your life, they just can’t seem to get “it.” They just continue to follow the life they have become accustomed to and can’t see nor hear of a better way. Yet they are lost and don’t even know it. Just the mention of God or Jesus and they look at you with dismay. You’ll get the look of “You’re trying to cheer me up with fairy tales?” or “Don’t throw you religious brain washing tripe at me.” And then they will continue to be restless and overcome by all life’s problems and complain with each breath they take.
As we awake each day, take the time to look and see; from the rising to the setting sun. Look up in the sky at night; see the stars and vastness of the universe, knowing it was created by a loving God and not just mysteriously happened by accident.
Stop from your busy schedule, close your eyes and listen. Screen out the noise of the traffic, the television and radio, stop and listen to the birds, frogs or even the buzzing fly… all created for a purpose from a living God for the balance of His kingdom.
It is my prayer that everyone could get “it” – the knowledge of the risen savior, Jesus Christ, son of God. And they would understand that you can be clueless and God still loves you anyway and so do I. ~ Rocky
But where did they miss being taught the basic fundamentals of common sense? Is it something you’re born with (or not), learned at home, like you’re “ABCs” or in church or at school?
I just don’t understand. You see these people are in the news, in the paper, magazines and even on television. Why some networks even have shows dedicated to the results of these peoples actions. And we love to watch!
They are even mentioned in the Bible. Jesus talked about them, you know, “Those that have ears can’t hear…” Well, duh, everyone has ears, so why can’t they hear? Because they don’t have a clue. But many then and now still can’t see nor hear the message of the Gospel.
Even when you try to explain, show by your life, they just can’t seem to get “it.” They just continue to follow the life they have become accustomed to and can’t see nor hear of a better way. Yet they are lost and don’t even know it. Just the mention of God or Jesus and they look at you with dismay. You’ll get the look of “You’re trying to cheer me up with fairy tales?” or “Don’t throw you religious brain washing tripe at me.” And then they will continue to be restless and overcome by all life’s problems and complain with each breath they take.
As we awake each day, take the time to look and see; from the rising to the setting sun. Look up in the sky at night; see the stars and vastness of the universe, knowing it was created by a loving God and not just mysteriously happened by accident.
Stop from your busy schedule, close your eyes and listen. Screen out the noise of the traffic, the television and radio, stop and listen to the birds, frogs or even the buzzing fly… all created for a purpose from a living God for the balance of His kingdom.
It is my prayer that everyone could get “it” – the knowledge of the risen savior, Jesus Christ, son of God. And they would understand that you can be clueless and God still loves you anyway and so do I. ~ Rocky
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Coincidence
Rocky -
Your comments are important and more timely than you could possibly imagine. We have in our church, unfortunately, a serious and most troubling grumbling among many of our members. Some of the grumbling has to do with comments regarding other peoples' ways of worshipping our God. Your well written thoughts speak directly to that issue and I plan to share them with as many in our church as will read them.
Thank you, Rocky, for all you do in the furtherance of God's Kingdom here on earth.
GLYASDI
John
Your comments are important and more timely than you could possibly imagine. We have in our church, unfortunately, a serious and most troubling grumbling among many of our members. Some of the grumbling has to do with comments regarding other peoples' ways of worshipping our God. Your well written thoughts speak directly to that issue and I plan to share them with as many in our church as will read them.
Thank you, Rocky, for all you do in the furtherance of God's Kingdom here on earth.
GLYASDI
John
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Feeling Special
What does it take to make you feel special? Is it a complement on the way you look or from something you do? Maybe you have a skill that you’re especially good doing. I’m sure that if you took the time and thought about it, you’d come away with a few ideas on what makes you feel special.
How does it make you feel when you get a “good deal?” “Just for you, we’ll give you an extra 15% off the price” “JUST FOR ME?!” Or how about when it’s your birthday? I know that some restaurants will give you a free dessert or special half-price on your meal on your birthday. It makes you feel special. Plus they want you to bring your friends to join you.
How about some new clothes, shoes, a haircut (style or color)? Guys have these “boys toys.” If I get a new guitar or another piece of equipment, I feel special, usually because I’ve denied myself for awhile and put a little cash away here and there until I have the funds to get that special something, because “I’m special, I deserve it.”
Sometimes we feel special just because of the church we attend. We feel that our form of worship or beliefs at our church is better than those down the street or on the other side of town. And when we start feeling special, we have a tendency to look down our nose at others who don’t have what it is that makes us feel special. You see this kind of thinking is all just a state of mind.
Then along comes this guy named Jesus. He let his followers know that they should not consider themselves too highly. Jesus chose them, they didn’t choose Jesus. And Paul is also someone who reminds us that God chose us not the other way around “that no one would boast.” Or plainly, don’t think of yourself so special. Because God “chose the whole world…” So in that case, we are special, enough that God had a plan to win our hearts through Jesus going to the cross for us.
So when you wake in the morning, don’t get trapped by the other things that “make you feel special.” Dwell on the fact that God; the creator of the universe thinks so highly of us, that He wants a loving relationship with us from now through eternity. Now that is something you can feel special about each and every day.
God Loves You And So Do I ~ Rocky
How does it make you feel when you get a “good deal?” “Just for you, we’ll give you an extra 15% off the price” “JUST FOR ME?!” Or how about when it’s your birthday? I know that some restaurants will give you a free dessert or special half-price on your meal on your birthday. It makes you feel special. Plus they want you to bring your friends to join you.
How about some new clothes, shoes, a haircut (style or color)? Guys have these “boys toys.” If I get a new guitar or another piece of equipment, I feel special, usually because I’ve denied myself for awhile and put a little cash away here and there until I have the funds to get that special something, because “I’m special, I deserve it.”
Sometimes we feel special just because of the church we attend. We feel that our form of worship or beliefs at our church is better than those down the street or on the other side of town. And when we start feeling special, we have a tendency to look down our nose at others who don’t have what it is that makes us feel special. You see this kind of thinking is all just a state of mind.
Then along comes this guy named Jesus. He let his followers know that they should not consider themselves too highly. Jesus chose them, they didn’t choose Jesus. And Paul is also someone who reminds us that God chose us not the other way around “that no one would boast.” Or plainly, don’t think of yourself so special. Because God “chose the whole world…” So in that case, we are special, enough that God had a plan to win our hearts through Jesus going to the cross for us.
So when you wake in the morning, don’t get trapped by the other things that “make you feel special.” Dwell on the fact that God; the creator of the universe thinks so highly of us, that He wants a loving relationship with us from now through eternity. Now that is something you can feel special about each and every day.
God Loves You And So Do I ~ Rocky
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Women's Walk #78
As I reflect back on the Women’s Spring Walk of 2010 (as Co-Auxiliary Director) I think to myself; What was I so worried about?; What were we trying to accomplish?; and What went right?
Starting from the last to the first – Everything that mattered went right. The Holy Spirit gave me a peace that transcended yoga or medication (legal or illegal). This was a direct result of having the right people in the right place at the right time. Believe it or not I had a few people that were signed up to help the Auxiliary Team that didn’t show up! But God provided us replacements! Out of the clear blue, we had people come and say, “We’re here for our pilgrim and is there anything we can do to help? And, oh by the way, is there a place we could sleep tonight?” So for the entire weekend, I don’t believe we were short of good helpers.
What were we trying to accomplish? All the duties and roles to support the pilgrims of April 2010 journey on the road to Emmaus. We have a recipe – the schedule with all the ingredients, time slots and assigned people to pull this off, what some might look at as a, mountainous task. And it is! But all we have to do is follow the recipe. And we did – for the most part.
I might have been upset from time to time when it appeared someone wanted to add or delete ingredients to our “angel food”. But overall, we blocked what was unnecessary and left what some might consider “local flavoring.”
The success of a weekend is dependent on everyone. There is neither top nor bottom, just different roles; servants willing to carry out their responsibilities to the best of their abilities with the gifts that God have given them. And on this weekend, that happened, the Body of Christ giving of their time and talents.
Now the part that caused me to ponder in the first place? 1) Not having very many people show up for the walk-through meeting before the walk. 2) Not knowing if the late helpers paid for any meals they ate, (If a walk goes over budget on a weekend, this is usually where it is). 3) The “No-Shows.” When we depend on people and we don’t even get a call, I wondered if I dropped the ball about instructions I should have given.
I feel so blessed by the fact that First Baptist Church of South Haven was blessed too. And the cherry on top of this wonderful delight? New friends I made that I didn’t know before. Thank you Kalamazoo Area Emmaus Community – we were blessed to be a blessing!
Starting from the last to the first – Everything that mattered went right. The Holy Spirit gave me a peace that transcended yoga or medication (legal or illegal). This was a direct result of having the right people in the right place at the right time. Believe it or not I had a few people that were signed up to help the Auxiliary Team that didn’t show up! But God provided us replacements! Out of the clear blue, we had people come and say, “We’re here for our pilgrim and is there anything we can do to help? And, oh by the way, is there a place we could sleep tonight?” So for the entire weekend, I don’t believe we were short of good helpers.
What were we trying to accomplish? All the duties and roles to support the pilgrims of April 2010 journey on the road to Emmaus. We have a recipe – the schedule with all the ingredients, time slots and assigned people to pull this off, what some might look at as a, mountainous task. And it is! But all we have to do is follow the recipe. And we did – for the most part.
I might have been upset from time to time when it appeared someone wanted to add or delete ingredients to our “angel food”. But overall, we blocked what was unnecessary and left what some might consider “local flavoring.”
The success of a weekend is dependent on everyone. There is neither top nor bottom, just different roles; servants willing to carry out their responsibilities to the best of their abilities with the gifts that God have given them. And on this weekend, that happened, the Body of Christ giving of their time and talents.
Now the part that caused me to ponder in the first place? 1) Not having very many people show up for the walk-through meeting before the walk. 2) Not knowing if the late helpers paid for any meals they ate, (If a walk goes over budget on a weekend, this is usually where it is). 3) The “No-Shows.” When we depend on people and we don’t even get a call, I wondered if I dropped the ball about instructions I should have given.
I feel so blessed by the fact that First Baptist Church of South Haven was blessed too. And the cherry on top of this wonderful delight? New friends I made that I didn’t know before. Thank you Kalamazoo Area Emmaus Community – we were blessed to be a blessing!
Saturday, April 3, 2010
In re-thinking my previous comments, I noticed a major flaw in what I wrote about asking your own son to die for strangers. When God asked His Son to die for us, we were not strangers. God already knew each and every one of us - BY NAME. In spite of, or because of, who we are and all the evil we think and do, He still loves us enough to have sent Jesus to die for us.
Yes, even me.
Yes, even you.
Even more awesome!
Yes, even me.
Yes, even you.
Even more awesome!
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Saturday, March 20, 2010
Grieving is Loving
So many people passed away in the past two weeks. In addition to those mentioned below, a friend of my wife, Marie Stevens, died after a fall in her home. Night before last, my uncle, Glen Franklin, died of pancreatic cancer. I found out at lunch Friday while in clinic. I'm now the oldest living male in this branch of the Franklin family.
After a while, that cumulative grief wears one down.
But wait.
We cannot grieve without being able to love. And being able to love, and connect, necessitates grief.
The solution to the inevitable pain of grief is rest - in the Lord; loving the memory of those in the Lord's arms; and connecting to those who love you here.
Thank you, Lord, for designing your world - and your Word - that way.
The grief will fade at its own pace. In the meantime, the grace and love will never fade.
God Bless,
Ken
After a while, that cumulative grief wears one down.
But wait.
We cannot grieve without being able to love. And being able to love, and connect, necessitates grief.
The solution to the inevitable pain of grief is rest - in the Lord; loving the memory of those in the Lord's arms; and connecting to those who love you here.
Thank you, Lord, for designing your world - and your Word - that way.
The grief will fade at its own pace. In the meantime, the grace and love will never fade.
God Bless,
Ken
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Ed Nierescher
We ask for your prayers for our departed brother in Christ, Ed Nierescher, who passed away last Friday of complications from a stem cell transplant that was necessary because he had leukemia and lymphoma.
He was a former member of Westwood United Methodist Church in Kalamazoo and took his Walk to Emmaus in Sturgis a few years ago. He moved to Lansing and was treasurer for the Lansing Area Emmaus Community. He leaves behind a wife and two grown children.
He was a former member of Westwood United Methodist Church in Kalamazoo and took his Walk to Emmaus in Sturgis a few years ago. He moved to Lansing and was treasurer for the Lansing Area Emmaus Community. He leaves behind a wife and two grown children.
Muriel Pierce
Muriel Pierce, wife of Rev. Ward Pierce (Menden/West Menden UMCs), died March 16, 2010. Ward is the former Kalamazoo Area Emmaus Community Spiritual Director.
Visitation will take place at Eickhoff's funeral home Monday, March 22, 2010 from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. and 6:00 to 8:00 p.m.
Two services will be held. The first service, at Mendon UMC, 320 W. Main Street, Mendon, MI 49072-0308, will be held Tuesday, March 23, 2010 at 2:00 p.m. The second service, at Lake Odessa Lakewood United Methodist Church, 10265 E Brown Road, Lake Odessa, MI 48849-9027, will be held Wednesday, March 24, 2010 at 11:00 a.m.
Graveside services will then be held Wednesday, March 24, 2010 at Sherman-Mesick Cemetery around 4:00 p.m. Rev. George Speas and Mr. John Waite will be officiating. They are long-time family friends. Sherman-Mesick Cemetery is located on M-37 & M-42 in Mesick, Wexford Co., Michigan.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to: Mesick UMC, Harrietta UMC, Brethren Epworth UMC, Lake City UMC, Wyoming Wesley Park UMC, Buchanan UMC, Lakewood of Lake Odessa UMC, Mendon UMC, West Mendon UMC or to the United Methodist Committee on Relief.
Anyone wishing to send their condolences may send them care of the Mendon United Methodist Church, 320 W. Main Street, P.O. Box 308, Mendon, MI 49072-0308.
Once the obituary is available, there will be a condolence registration available located on the funeral home webpage at: www.eickhofffuneralhome.com.
An obituary will be posted to the webpage and in newspapers in the following cities: Cadillac, Grand Rapids, Hastings, Buchanan, Sturgis and Three Rivers.
The family appreciates the prayers they have received.
Visitation will take place at Eickhoff's funeral home Monday, March 22, 2010 from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. and 6:00 to 8:00 p.m.
Two services will be held. The first service, at Mendon UMC, 320 W. Main Street, Mendon, MI 49072-0308, will be held Tuesday, March 23, 2010 at 2:00 p.m. The second service, at Lake Odessa Lakewood United Methodist Church, 10265 E Brown Road, Lake Odessa, MI 48849-9027, will be held Wednesday, March 24, 2010 at 11:00 a.m.
Graveside services will then be held Wednesday, March 24, 2010 at Sherman-Mesick Cemetery around 4:00 p.m. Rev. George Speas and Mr. John Waite will be officiating. They are long-time family friends. Sherman-Mesick Cemetery is located on M-37 & M-42 in Mesick, Wexford Co., Michigan.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to: Mesick UMC, Harrietta UMC, Brethren Epworth UMC, Lake City UMC, Wyoming Wesley Park UMC, Buchanan UMC, Lakewood of Lake Odessa UMC, Mendon UMC, West Mendon UMC or to the United Methodist Committee on Relief.
Anyone wishing to send their condolences may send them care of the Mendon United Methodist Church, 320 W. Main Street, P.O. Box 308, Mendon, MI 49072-0308.
Once the obituary is available, there will be a condolence registration available located on the funeral home webpage at: www.eickhofffuneralhome.com.
An obituary will be posted to the webpage and in newspapers in the following cities: Cadillac, Grand Rapids, Hastings, Buchanan, Sturgis and Three Rivers.
The family appreciates the prayers they have received.
Marie Falconer
Marie Falconer of Vicksburg passed away Sunday from complications of an abdominal aneurysm that got infected. Praise God that she is now embracing her husband, who passed unexpectedly not long ago. Her adult son and daughter could use our prayers.
Visitation will be Saturday, March 20, 2010 from 10:00-11:00 am with the service to follow. Both will be held at Vicksburg United Methodist Church.
http://www.lifestorynet.com/memories/56805/
Marie took her Walk to Emmaus in the fall of 2008 at Delton Faith UMC.
Visitation will be Saturday, March 20, 2010 from 10:00-11:00 am with the service to follow. Both will be held at Vicksburg United Methodist Church.
http://www.lifestorynet.com/memories/56805/
Marie took her Walk to Emmaus in the fall of 2008 at Delton Faith UMC.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Sitting here in my still very quiet house waiting for time to go to my 4th day meeting. I've read this morning's Upper Room as usual. (Very convenient to have it sent directly to my email daily!)
I really look forward to these short get-togethers. To join in informal fellowship other Emmaus people is REALLY good. It is a reminder. It is a "battery charger." It is at once a way to give to others in spiritual support and friendship, and to receive encouragement from them.
It seems amazing to me that it is sooooo difficult coming up with a time that a majority of our local Emmaus members can meet. We have a large number here who have gone on the walk, and yet we seem to gather only a very few at a 4th day session. Sometimes, we have as few as one show up! I know we all have busy lives, but.........
I really look forward to these short get-togethers. To join in informal fellowship other Emmaus people is REALLY good. It is a reminder. It is a "battery charger." It is at once a way to give to others in spiritual support and friendship, and to receive encouragement from them.
It seems amazing to me that it is sooooo difficult coming up with a time that a majority of our local Emmaus members can meet. We have a large number here who have gone on the walk, and yet we seem to gather only a very few at a 4th day session. Sometimes, we have as few as one show up! I know we all have busy lives, but.........
Saturday, March 6, 2010
Counter Tops and Particle Board
Recently, we did some remodeling work to our kitchen. Some extra counter space was needed and an extra cupboard. Well, you just don’t stop there; you might as well put on a new counter top too. After looking at a number of mind-numbing options, Sandi (my precious wife) decided what we wanted. I was just glad that the process is progressing. Oh, I forgot to mention that we wanted to replace all the doors and drawer covers too, with a new sink and faucet.
We were assured by the counter top people that the installed cabinets could handle the load (old counter-top is traditional Formica, new counter-top is quartz!). So yeah, everything is going smooth, except for a slight delay in the installation; which meant a few extra days of eating out, but hey, fewer dishes to do.
The day before installation, the old counter- top was removed. Things looked okay if you didn’t look too closely. But on further inspection, the chipboard back and sides show signs of the 20 years of age. The wise thing would have been to replace all the base cabinets, but that would have put us way over budget. And installation of the new counter-top was less than 24 hours away.
The main thing; the support was solid. The wall mounts were solid. With a little Elmer’s carpenter glue and some corner supports, things could be patched up. Whose going to look that close on the inside after all is done? It’s what’s on the outside that is seen and touched that count, right?
Well, maybe it’s that way for kitchens, houses and such, but for God’s creation, He knows our insides better than we do. We can make our outward appearance look nice and put on a glowing smile and still be miserable on the inside. You have to remember that Jesus was a carpenter; he knows that there is more to us than just an outward appearance.
God knows how “flakey” we might be on the inside, He’s still willing to lift us up when we say “I can’t take it any longer. I can’t do it without You Lord. I’m sorry for being such a disappointment.” God will take us just as we are, but he wants us to have the fullness of life and become like Jesus. His desire for all man-kind is ~“I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their (his) toil—this is the gift of God.”
It’s amazing what a little glue and support here and there can do. When is the last time you asked your carpenter (Jesus) to inspect your cabinets?
We were assured by the counter top people that the installed cabinets could handle the load (old counter-top is traditional Formica, new counter-top is quartz!). So yeah, everything is going smooth, except for a slight delay in the installation; which meant a few extra days of eating out, but hey, fewer dishes to do.
The day before installation, the old counter- top was removed. Things looked okay if you didn’t look too closely. But on further inspection, the chipboard back and sides show signs of the 20 years of age. The wise thing would have been to replace all the base cabinets, but that would have put us way over budget. And installation of the new counter-top was less than 24 hours away.
The main thing; the support was solid. The wall mounts were solid. With a little Elmer’s carpenter glue and some corner supports, things could be patched up. Whose going to look that close on the inside after all is done? It’s what’s on the outside that is seen and touched that count, right?
Well, maybe it’s that way for kitchens, houses and such, but for God’s creation, He knows our insides better than we do. We can make our outward appearance look nice and put on a glowing smile and still be miserable on the inside. You have to remember that Jesus was a carpenter; he knows that there is more to us than just an outward appearance.
God knows how “flakey” we might be on the inside, He’s still willing to lift us up when we say “I can’t take it any longer. I can’t do it without You Lord. I’m sorry for being such a disappointment.” God will take us just as we are, but he wants us to have the fullness of life and become like Jesus. His desire for all man-kind is ~“I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their (his) toil—this is the gift of God.”
It’s amazing what a little glue and support here and there can do. When is the last time you asked your carpenter (Jesus) to inspect your cabinets?
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Are We Ready?
Preparations are being made. I know some of the names on the Men’s team. I haven’t seen a list of the Women’s team yet, but I know there is one and the meeting places arranged and scheduled. I know that the board has been and continues to evaluate and discuss the things that need to be decided. I know plans are taking place at the location of the event. Preparations are taking place as you read this.
I’ve also received e-mails from some community members asking for prayers and asking for the receivers to seek guidance from the Holy Spirit on whom they should possible ask to attend the next set of walks. It’s all part of a process of “Getting Ready.”
If you go back to the very first talk, Priorities, and remember the process; imagination, will, planning and action, you will understand what it takes to get pilgrims “ready” for the next set of walks.
Relying on the Holy Spirit, can you imagine the people in your “circle” that would be likely candidates? Do they fit the criteria? (Are they active in their church, seeking a deeper understanding of their faith, physically able to participate in a weekend event, emotionally stable of the decisions they will endure?)
Relying on the Holy Spirit for assistance, do you have the will to carry out all the duties of being a sponsor? Can you pray for the individual on a daily basis? Can you take them to site on the start of the walk? Can you attend to personal matters for them while they are away from their family and home? Can you reach out and contact total strangers to collect the required Agape letters for your pilgrim? Can you bring this person to the first few gatherings that take place each month? Can you do what is possible to get them involved in a Fourth Day Group?
Relying on God, can you plan to meet with your potential pilgrim and discuss what the walk is, what it meant to you? Do you know someone to contact if they ask questions that you don’t know the answer to?
Relying on God, seeking His will, knowing what is required; can you take the action necessary to become that person’s sponsor? If the answer is “yes” then proceed with the plan.
If the answer to the above is “no” then:
Ask God – “Is it my will that is getting in the way, Lord? What must I do Lord, who should I talk to, to seek your will and know what I should do? Help me Lord to know your will and be the instrument you intended me to be.”
Preparations are being made. Will we, the Kalamazoo Area Emmaus community, be ready ? The time is now. Are you doing God’s will this very moment?
~Roc
I’ve also received e-mails from some community members asking for prayers and asking for the receivers to seek guidance from the Holy Spirit on whom they should possible ask to attend the next set of walks. It’s all part of a process of “Getting Ready.”
If you go back to the very first talk, Priorities, and remember the process; imagination, will, planning and action, you will understand what it takes to get pilgrims “ready” for the next set of walks.
Relying on the Holy Spirit, can you imagine the people in your “circle” that would be likely candidates? Do they fit the criteria? (Are they active in their church, seeking a deeper understanding of their faith, physically able to participate in a weekend event, emotionally stable of the decisions they will endure?)
Relying on the Holy Spirit for assistance, do you have the will to carry out all the duties of being a sponsor? Can you pray for the individual on a daily basis? Can you take them to site on the start of the walk? Can you attend to personal matters for them while they are away from their family and home? Can you reach out and contact total strangers to collect the required Agape letters for your pilgrim? Can you bring this person to the first few gatherings that take place each month? Can you do what is possible to get them involved in a Fourth Day Group?
Relying on God, can you plan to meet with your potential pilgrim and discuss what the walk is, what it meant to you? Do you know someone to contact if they ask questions that you don’t know the answer to?
Relying on God, seeking His will, knowing what is required; can you take the action necessary to become that person’s sponsor? If the answer is “yes” then proceed with the plan.
If the answer to the above is “no” then:
Ask God – “Is it my will that is getting in the way, Lord? What must I do Lord, who should I talk to, to seek your will and know what I should do? Help me Lord to know your will and be the instrument you intended me to be.”
Preparations are being made. Will we, the Kalamazoo Area Emmaus community, be ready ? The time is now. Are you doing God’s will this very moment?
~Roc
Sunday, December 13, 2009
What's a body to do?
As I start preparing for the spring events; praying, making lists and talking with other people. I'm perplexed about possible candidates from my church.
There are several that are already "Emmaus" type people, and haven't attended the weekend event. My pastor, who couldn't envision taking a whole 3 days out of his schedule is always teaching and preaching on one of the weekend talks. Sandi and I will be sitting and listening; one of us will nudge the other and whisper "Changing our World" or "Growth through Study." And I will try to give that feedback to our pastor. "Pastor Jerry, you gave the core message of one of the talks on the weekend today in your sermon. Are you sure you haven't attended an Emmaus weekend?"
The pastor isn't the only one. Just last week our Children's director gave the devotion for the lighting of the Advent wreath. She talked about changing our world, our country, our state, our home town and our household. But the key to her devotion was starting with yourself! Then everything else will fall in to place. I gave her feedback later too. And she too is a very busy lady, not wanting to take 3 days out of her schedule. She has work to do for God.
So my situation is, should the non-Emmaus-Emmaus people still be pursued for attending the weekend? And if they did go, would they be too distracted at their own church? Would they try to get something done on a break?
I'm blessed to be in a church of non-Emmaus-Emmaus people. They hug, they pray, they know the message of God's love. They are a blessing to the unblessed each day and every Sunday. What a wonderful predicament!
Roc
There are several that are already "Emmaus" type people, and haven't attended the weekend event. My pastor, who couldn't envision taking a whole 3 days out of his schedule is always teaching and preaching on one of the weekend talks. Sandi and I will be sitting and listening; one of us will nudge the other and whisper "Changing our World" or "Growth through Study." And I will try to give that feedback to our pastor. "Pastor Jerry, you gave the core message of one of the talks on the weekend today in your sermon. Are you sure you haven't attended an Emmaus weekend?"
The pastor isn't the only one. Just last week our Children's director gave the devotion for the lighting of the Advent wreath. She talked about changing our world, our country, our state, our home town and our household. But the key to her devotion was starting with yourself! Then everything else will fall in to place. I gave her feedback later too. And she too is a very busy lady, not wanting to take 3 days out of her schedule. She has work to do for God.
So my situation is, should the non-Emmaus-Emmaus people still be pursued for attending the weekend? And if they did go, would they be too distracted at their own church? Would they try to get something done on a break?
I'm blessed to be in a church of non-Emmaus-Emmaus people. They hug, they pray, they know the message of God's love. They are a blessing to the unblessed each day and every Sunday. What a wonderful predicament!
Roc
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Thanksgiving
Yeah, I'm thankful for "the usual stuff" like family, friends, possessions, and all that.
I'm also thankful that I can get up every morning and go to a job I really don't like. I know there are many people today who would just love to have any kind of a job but don't.
I am thankful for family members who are beating down some serious problems and coming out really good. Prayer does work.
I am thankful for some of the conflicts in our church. It has made me get a bit more involved and actually brought me a bit closer to God.
I am thankful for a daughter who lives so far away that I only get to see her a couple times a year. I know she is growing stronger and more independent. (Now, if we can just get her back into church!)
I am thankful for a wife who is now among the unemployed. She deserves a little time off and can maybe relax just a bit now before the next job comes along.
Mostly I am thankful for God, who lets me see the positives in the stumbling blocks that are sometimes put in my path.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
I'm also thankful that I can get up every morning and go to a job I really don't like. I know there are many people today who would just love to have any kind of a job but don't.
I am thankful for family members who are beating down some serious problems and coming out really good. Prayer does work.
I am thankful for some of the conflicts in our church. It has made me get a bit more involved and actually brought me a bit closer to God.
I am thankful for a daughter who lives so far away that I only get to see her a couple times a year. I know she is growing stronger and more independent. (Now, if we can just get her back into church!)
I am thankful for a wife who is now among the unemployed. She deserves a little time off and can maybe relax just a bit now before the next job comes along.
Mostly I am thankful for God, who lets me see the positives in the stumbling blocks that are sometimes put in my path.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
72 Hours - What was I thinking?
I’ve experienced my own and worked on many since April of 1993. For some people, they surrender when they finally say “Yes” to the coaxing from their friends and sign the application. They have surrendered already and say “Yes, Lord, I trust you” before Thursday afternoon rolls around.
Than others will raise the white flag on Saturday before lunch, maybe Saturday evening as the emotional filled day and evening comes to a close. Because when we surrender to God, that’s the time we start to grow in knowing how he wants us to be like Jesus; leading us to make a difference in the world around us. Having us reflect on what’s important in life, priorities. Taking time to learn about Him and the world and people we come face to face with each day, growth through study, changing our world and being part of priesthood. And putting it all together and fellowshipping with like believers as the body of Christ. But that can only happen when we surrender and utter, “Not my will but Yours O God.”
I’ve also been present enough to witness those who come close but for whatever reason, just can’t seem to let go. Because something in our humanness makes it difficult to give in, to say “If I don’t trust in myself, what am I, who am I? What will others think?” We live in a world, where it is expected to take care of your own business and do it with success. We’ve seen and heard what happens when you fail, when you have to rely on others for assistance. They are pitied, and some, depending on how bad they fail, will be scorned, by non-Christians and believe it or not Christians too. I’ve seen it, I’ve heard it. So surrendering, saying “I can’t do this by myself any longer, Lord. Show me the way”, is a hugh step. I’ve seen some leave after the seventy-two hours still holding on to “I can take care of it myself” thoughts.
To me, the Walk to Emmaus is how the church should be, how the world should be. For 72 hours, if we allow ourselves, completely trust God and those who led us to this place and do what the leaders ask. It’s actually almost like a short vacation, not having to worry about making decisions and all the things that distract us from having our communion with God. But we’re not made to stay in that moment. There is work to do; on ourselves and in the world.
Than others will raise the white flag on Saturday before lunch, maybe Saturday evening as the emotional filled day and evening comes to a close. Because when we surrender to God, that’s the time we start to grow in knowing how he wants us to be like Jesus; leading us to make a difference in the world around us. Having us reflect on what’s important in life, priorities. Taking time to learn about Him and the world and people we come face to face with each day, growth through study, changing our world and being part of priesthood. And putting it all together and fellowshipping with like believers as the body of Christ. But that can only happen when we surrender and utter, “Not my will but Yours O God.”
I’ve also been present enough to witness those who come close but for whatever reason, just can’t seem to let go. Because something in our humanness makes it difficult to give in, to say “If I don’t trust in myself, what am I, who am I? What will others think?” We live in a world, where it is expected to take care of your own business and do it with success. We’ve seen and heard what happens when you fail, when you have to rely on others for assistance. They are pitied, and some, depending on how bad they fail, will be scorned, by non-Christians and believe it or not Christians too. I’ve seen it, I’ve heard it. So surrendering, saying “I can’t do this by myself any longer, Lord. Show me the way”, is a hugh step. I’ve seen some leave after the seventy-two hours still holding on to “I can take care of it myself” thoughts.
To me, the Walk to Emmaus is how the church should be, how the world should be. For 72 hours, if we allow ourselves, completely trust God and those who led us to this place and do what the leaders ask. It’s actually almost like a short vacation, not having to worry about making decisions and all the things that distract us from having our communion with God. But we’re not made to stay in that moment. There is work to do; on ourselves and in the world.
Thursday, November 19, 2009
more on rules
I am not a fan of blind adherence to rules. After all, blind adherence is just that - blind. (That may be one of the reasons I have not been more successful in my career than I have been!)
At the men's walk, I was of the opinion, initially, that the walk should have been canceled due to the low number of pilgrims. From what I saw of the walk and some of the impact it had on some of the pilgrims, I am exceedingly glad it was not. I too believe God chose those who were there for His reasons, and He permitted the walk to continue.
Yes, we should stay as close to the set of rules as we can, but.........
I am also glad that some of the great Christian men I know can disagree on some things, remain great Christian men, and rely on God for guidance.
Peace to all.
At the men's walk, I was of the opinion, initially, that the walk should have been canceled due to the low number of pilgrims. From what I saw of the walk and some of the impact it had on some of the pilgrims, I am exceedingly glad it was not. I too believe God chose those who were there for His reasons, and He permitted the walk to continue.
Yes, we should stay as close to the set of rules as we can, but.........
I am also glad that some of the great Christian men I know can disagree on some things, remain great Christian men, and rely on God for guidance.
Peace to all.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Balance, Rules, and Relationships
Rocky gave me a lot of food for thought. But as a man who has worked in a society of rules and regulations for 25 years, alarm bells go off when I hear that the solution for ANYTHING is "Follow the Rules".
I do believe that the structure of the weekend is carefully crafted, and should be generally adhered to. However, God and his Word, in my humble opinion, have shown what man thinks of rules and what God thinks of rules.
Following the rules without prayer and listening can easily become worshiping the rules. We as humans are easily tempted to become the next set of Pharisees. And arguments as to the meaning of the rules make us likely to take offense at one another, which result in fractionation (we already have De Colores, Tres Dias, Emmaus, and I don't know how many other flavors).
Chiros and Chrysalis, wonderful ministries, came about by ADAPTING the rules to fit the sheep in need of feeding.
I agree that the structure we have, built through prayer and experience, should be used, with prayer and experience. But let's not limit God, who has changed the rules in mighty ways thousands of times to reach all of the children He loves.
Christ did NOT fit what we thought the rules are. And aren't we glad He didn't?
God Bless,
Ken
I do believe that the structure of the weekend is carefully crafted, and should be generally adhered to. However, God and his Word, in my humble opinion, have shown what man thinks of rules and what God thinks of rules.
Following the rules without prayer and listening can easily become worshiping the rules. We as humans are easily tempted to become the next set of Pharisees. And arguments as to the meaning of the rules make us likely to take offense at one another, which result in fractionation (we already have De Colores, Tres Dias, Emmaus, and I don't know how many other flavors).
Chiros and Chrysalis, wonderful ministries, came about by ADAPTING the rules to fit the sheep in need of feeding.
I agree that the structure we have, built through prayer and experience, should be used, with prayer and experience. But let's not limit God, who has changed the rules in mighty ways thousands of times to reach all of the children He loves.
Christ did NOT fit what we thought the rules are. And aren't we glad He didn't?
God Bless,
Ken
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Following the Rules
I was recently in contact with our regional rep (Cathy Eberly). I asked her about other communities that had "WAITING LISTS" - I haven't seen that in our community for a long time. I asked "What are they doing, so that we can learn from their success." To sum up her answer "They are following the rules." And the icing on the cake is 'It's not about the weekends, it's about the 4th Day.'
Now we are following the rules a LOT better than we have been in the past, but we still waffle when the hard choices come in to play. Like - the cut off for deciding the weekend event is two weeks before, registration forms in hand. We get close and the board has to make the call but we 'waffle'. "The teams have worked so hard." "I taked to my pilgrim and they say 'Yes' and I' bring the regisitration form Thursday evening." The list goes on. It was hard to do some table arrangements for the Men's walk due to table leaders and assistants having pilgrims on the weekend. Conference room members are not suppose to sponsor pilgrims. How can you do your sponsor duties while you're in the conference room?
Bottom line, we have to stop thinking about our own interests and think about the bigger picture. The Emmaus movement is to strenghten church leaders, not to give someone a weekend warm fuzzy. Until we do that we are misrepresenting the program. Christians have a label that they must be tolerant and accpting of all people and ideas. But Jesus didn't waffle when Peter refused to be washed by our Lord. He said "Unless I wash you, you will have no part of me." Talk about throwing the baby out with the bath water! Jesus knew what the disciples needed to be taught and how. Peter thought he knew better, for in his mind, he was unworthy. He thought he was being humble and maybe he'd be an example for the others. God had other plans, "My way or the highway!"
The Emmaus program has a plan and a 'recipe.' When you talk to the people that see all the communities and know what is and what isn't going on, then you can get an idea of what we need to do. Until then we will fall short. We've seen the Grand Rapids community die. We need to support our board and stand behind their decisions so they can do the right thing. The board signs a covenant saying they will follow the 'plan.' That is our permission to have weekend events and call them the "Walk to Emmaus."
We need to let them do the job without putting pressure on them because we might not get our way. I know it's hard because we have relationships that can be fractured and broken. There are still some people who are upset with me because of the way we changed 'Candlight.' I was on the board when we made the decision to 'follow the manual.' It's been years since we've done that, but if the subject comes up, my old friends get upset and start giving me flack.
The community needs to wake up or we will wind up like Grand Rapids. I believe in the Emmaus movement. Full weekends are awesome. Let's get back on track.
GLYASDI
~ Rocky
Now we are following the rules a LOT better than we have been in the past, but we still waffle when the hard choices come in to play. Like - the cut off for deciding the weekend event is two weeks before, registration forms in hand. We get close and the board has to make the call but we 'waffle'. "The teams have worked so hard." "I taked to my pilgrim and they say 'Yes' and I' bring the regisitration form Thursday evening." The list goes on. It was hard to do some table arrangements for the Men's walk due to table leaders and assistants having pilgrims on the weekend. Conference room members are not suppose to sponsor pilgrims. How can you do your sponsor duties while you're in the conference room?
Bottom line, we have to stop thinking about our own interests and think about the bigger picture. The Emmaus movement is to strenghten church leaders, not to give someone a weekend warm fuzzy. Until we do that we are misrepresenting the program. Christians have a label that they must be tolerant and accpting of all people and ideas. But Jesus didn't waffle when Peter refused to be washed by our Lord. He said "Unless I wash you, you will have no part of me." Talk about throwing the baby out with the bath water! Jesus knew what the disciples needed to be taught and how. Peter thought he knew better, for in his mind, he was unworthy. He thought he was being humble and maybe he'd be an example for the others. God had other plans, "My way or the highway!"
The Emmaus program has a plan and a 'recipe.' When you talk to the people that see all the communities and know what is and what isn't going on, then you can get an idea of what we need to do. Until then we will fall short. We've seen the Grand Rapids community die. We need to support our board and stand behind their decisions so they can do the right thing. The board signs a covenant saying they will follow the 'plan.' That is our permission to have weekend events and call them the "Walk to Emmaus."
We need to let them do the job without putting pressure on them because we might not get our way. I know it's hard because we have relationships that can be fractured and broken. There are still some people who are upset with me because of the way we changed 'Candlight.' I was on the board when we made the decision to 'follow the manual.' It's been years since we've done that, but if the subject comes up, my old friends get upset and start giving me flack.
The community needs to wake up or we will wind up like Grand Rapids. I believe in the Emmaus movement. Full weekends are awesome. Let's get back on track.
GLYASDI
~ Rocky
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